What's going on?

When I'm mad, sad, scared, excited, happy, you name it, when I am it, I usually write a song.  Even if the song is never played in public, I usually write a song.  It makes me feel better, gets things off of my chest, and sometimes evolves into something worth sharing! Though it doesn't happen often, I've been pretty cranky these last few weeks.  The end of 2012 was rough for a lot of people, and I guess I was no exception.  Now, I don't mean to whine, or beg for pity, I'm just telling you.  I've been cranky.

As a songwriter who writes and sings about hope, I'm often asked to sing at funerals.  It sounds weird, but it actually makes a lot of sense.  (After all, when do you need hope the most?)  So it was an honor to be asked to be a part of multiple services and remembrances that were held to pay tribute to the lives lost at Sandy Hook in December.  It took its toll on me a bit, but I was happy to lend any kind of comfort that I could through music, to families that needed it.

Of course, the last few weeks have been peppered with conversations about gun control, mental health issues, and school security, the debates have been ongoing, and will continue.  Sandy Hook, will forever conjure up certain images in all of our minds, and will always be cited as a reason for and against different things, but that's not my issue.

I take issue with the fact that gun sales of a particular military style weapon have gone through the roof.  People are spending thousands of dollars on a gun that freaks the crap out of me.

Whatever, spend your money on what you want, own what you want, I don't really have a problem with you.  I think it's a weird hobby, but you probably think I'm weird for opting out of hair-brushing.  (We can get into which hobbies have an overall negative effect later - pretty sure dreadlocks have never killed anyone...)

I'm mad, angry, disgusted, offended, the list continues, by the people who are making tons and tons of money off of a tragedy.  There's no denying it.  Because the Sandy Hook shooting happened, gun sales have gone up.  And because gun sales have gone up, owners and producers of guns have made more money.  When they file their taxes, they will file a larger income, and they will have a school shooting to thank.

The link is that direct.

I hope you're proud of yourselves.  I hope you sleep well at night.  Enjoy spending that money.

I'm also mad, angry, disgusted, offended with the NRA, the gun lobbyists, and the pro-gun organizations that are telling people that gun control means gun elimination.  People: THESE ARE BULLIES.  These are the kids that picked on the kid with glasses, or these might even be the kids that had the glasses and are now happy to have some power.  Either way - they've gone the way of the bully, and they don't deserve the power that they're allowed to wield over this country.

So I'm coming for you.  You bullies.  I have formed the 'Just Be Nice' political party.  But on days like today, I'm announcing the formation of my Folk Army.  And we're coming for you.  We're going to use words, and conversation, and debate, and intelligence, and thoughtfulness to show the world who and what you are.  So get ready.  I'm coming.

 

Question time!

Happy Thursday!

I have a really cool house concert coming up in St. Paul, Minnesota, which I'm SO EXCITED ABOUT.  It's going to be in one of my college roommate's living rooms, with a dancer and a poet.  Can't wait.

Anyway, to promote the show, she asked all of us questions, and as I was writing them, I thought, 'I wonder if anyone else is curious about these things?'  So here are the answers in case you were wondering.  (Also - if you ever have any other questions - even if it's about my favorite color - you know you can ask, right?  Purple, by the way.)

Here are the answers to your questions:

1. What's inspiring/exciting you these days?  

To be honest - because that's what this is all about, right?  The political and social moving forward-ness of this country.  I think that the election was a huge success for human rights, equality, and hopefully social justice.  I still have almost no faith in our government to get anything done, which is why I prefer small, grass roots, scrappy insurgency-type non-profits and will support them forever, but I love that it seems that folks are excited by goodness, rather than afraid of fear tactics.  That's been incredibly inspiring to watch.

2. What were you thinking about when you wrote/made what you're sharing? 

Almost all of my songs are inspired by underdogs.  Two of my favorite songs (which I'll be playing) are 'Dear Mister', which takes on our government's inefficiency and willingness to let politics get in the way of serving the people who need them, and 'Moving On', which was inspired by a group of kids in Fairfield, CT, called The Loft.  The kids of The Loft are amazing, and I'm a huge fan of them.  They formed out of necessity when a young teenager in Fairfield committed suicide after being bullied incessantly for being gay.  Her friends needed a space to mourn their loss, as well as a space to feel safe, so they've created one.  After attending their first annual Lavender Lights Vigil, which was held to honor the lives that we've lost to anti-gay bullying, I wrote this song.

3. What's something unrelated to this work that folks might not know about you?

There are probably a lot of things that people don't know about me because I can be kind of a weirdo.  I truly believe that I have a super power called super gravity, and I use it when my husband and I have 'wrestle mania'.  Sometimes our dog gets involved, and it's truly what it sounds...a wrestling match.  I usually end up winning by cheating and tickling him, that is if my super gravity has failed me that day.  Other than that, I watch dark TV shows like 'Bones', 'Law & Order: SVU', and 'Criminal Minds'.  I'm not sure a lot of people ever know what to do with that information since I'm a pretty chipper person.  Last thing...I have a pet frog named George.  I got him when I was 10 and he's still alive, which makes him 21.  The world record is 28, so at this point we're just riding it out for the win!

4. What do you do when you're not writing/dancing/singing?

When I'm not singing, I'm usually at the computer trying to convince someone that they should have me sing.  I do all of my own booking, promoting, etc, so I'm usually trying to sell myself to the masses.  It's really fun, because I get to connect with people, which is one of my favorite things about music.  If not at the computer working, I'm usually watching one of my dark shows or reading, and if not those things, it usually means that I'm away working with Simply Smiles (Bryan's (my husband) non-profit) in either Mexico or South Dakota, but I usually try to work some music into that as well.

I think that's it.  Thanks for asking! K

Thank you, Ellen.

So...it's day 3 of my Post-Campaign, Ellen-Campaign, and people are still sending her e-mails, rocking her facebook, and sending her sweet tweets and I couldn't be more happy, humbled and grateful. For those of you who've sent in e-mails, thank you.  A lot of you have then been so kind as to forward along the words that you shared with Ellen's staff about me.  I can't believe how nice you people are!  I mean, I know we're friends and everything, but man, you folks are really kind.

This has been a great few days.  I'll keep going strong, if you're willing to stick with me, and the moment the show calls - well, you just might hear the excited yelps from wherever you are!

I love you and I thank you, Kristen